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HELP YOUR CHILDREN BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES
D.A.R.E. a simple acronym
with a big message. Drug Abuse Resistance Education. It's a crusade that works.
D.A.R.E. teaches Your children from kindergarten through high
school that popularity can be found in positive behavior. Belonging need not
require them to abandon their values. Self confidence and self worth come from
asserting themselves and resisting destructive temptations. D.A.R.E. teaches
them not just that they should refuse drugs and alcohol, but how to do so.
D.A.R.E. gives Your children the tools they need to build a
better, fuller, more satisfying life.
The program was created in 1983 as a joint venture of the Los
Angeles Police Department and the Los Angeles Unified School District. D.A.R.E.
sends a highly trained police officer into fifth grade classrooms every week for
17 weeks to teach students how to refuse drugs and alcohol.
In Quincy, D.A.R.E. officers are assigned to several schools
during each school year. They try to visit their assigned schools at least one
day per week.
Nationally, D.A.R.E. officers reach hundreds of thousands of students
every year.
The program follows a carefully structured curriculum,
focusing on topics such as personal safety, drug use and misuse, consequences of
behavior, resisting peer pressure, building self esteem, assertiveness training,
managing stress without drugs, media images of drug use, role models and support
systems. Separate components have been developed to introduce kindergarten
through fourth grade students to the D.A.R.E. program and to follow up in junior
high and high school classrooms, spreading the D.A.R.E. message throughout the
schools. By getting the message from a street-wise police officer. One who's
been out there. One who knows how drugs and alcohol can destroy lives. Kids take
that message seriously. And, by getting kids when they're most vulnerable to
social pressure, when they're 9, 10, and 11 years old or sooner, D.A.R.E. helps
them build the willpower and the belief in themselves that they need to stay on
track as they forge their futures.
WHY D.A.R.E. ?
BECAUSE IT WORKS.
D.A.R.E. has been doing its
job for nearly a decade. And its succeeding.
It's not a one hour, once a year visit by a stranger. Its
four and a half months of straight talk and conversation, with someone who
becomes a friend, confidant, and ally. It leaves a lasting impression on kids
and their families.
In two studies, one by the Evaluation and Training Institute
and another funded by the National Institute of Justice, a sample of students
who had completed the D.A.R.E. curriculum shows:
- Significantly less substance abuse including cigarettes and alcohol
- A sharp decrease in school vandalism and truancy
- Improved student work habits
- Reduced tension between ethnic groups
- Reduced gang activity
- A more positive attitude toward police
- Better student rapport with teachers and school officials
THE FOLLOWING
ARE 20 SURE WAYS TO ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN TO USE DRUGS:
- Never eat together as a family.
- Never have family outings which occur weekly, monthly or annually
that they can look forward to as a family unit.
- Talk to your children, not with them; never listen.
- Punish your children in public and never praise them or reinforce
their positive behavior.
- Always solve their problems, make their decisions for them.
- Leave the responsibility of teaching morality and spiritual training
to the schools and the church.
- Never let your children experience cold, fatigue, adventure, injury,
risk, challenge, experimentation, failure, frustration, discouragement, etc.
- Threaten your child, i.e., "If you ever try drugs or alcohol, I'll
punish you".
- Expect your children to get "A's" in school in all subjects.
- Always pick up after them and don't encourage them to accept
responsibility.
- Discourage your child from talking about their feelings, i.e. anger,
fear, sadness, etc.
- Be overprotective and don't teach your child the meaning of the word
consequence.
- Make your child feel that their mistakes are sins.
- Put your child off when they ask "why" and tell them "because I said
so".
- Lead your child to believe they are perfect and infallible.
- Keep your home atmosphere in a state of chaos.
- Never tell them how much you love them and never discuss your
feelings with them.
- Never hug them or display affection in front of them.
- Always expect the worst and never give them the benefit of the doubt.
- Don't ever trust them.
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